A Very Special Birthday Celebration

I am currently in the USA to help celebrate the birthdays of my two granddaughters. Last weekend my Seattle daughter came to California for the event so we were all together which was wonderful. Joel and I were both there, with my older daughter and her family, my younger daughter and her family, and the other grandparents. It was quite a happy group!

Saturday morning, everyone together!

Saturday morning, everyone together and out for coffee

Saturday we went out for my grandson’s soccer practice, and then spent most of the rest of the day enjoying each other’s company and enjoying a great dinner at the home of the other grandparents. It’s really nice that they are local now.

Sunday was birthday party day.

Guests arrived, and then it was time for cake.

It was a fun party with good people, other cute kids, and a good time all around.

It was a really nice party and everyone seemed to enjoy themselves, adults and children alike.

Pictures like this are going to be so precious in the coming years, pictures of some of the first times the girls play together.

Pictures like this are going to be so precious in the coming years, pictures of some of the first times the girls play together.

Thank you, all my readers, for indulging me with the baby and family pictures. I’m still trying to wrap my head around it all. My family has grown from two daughters to all these people! I can watch them and marvel for hours and for all of us to be together, that is even more special. Maybe we will have to make it a yearly event.

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Grandchildren, and the Halloween Party at School

My grandson goes to Montessori school here, and yesterday was their Halloween party. Of course I had to take photos of the cute kids in their costumes.

A family was kind enough to provide pizza for everyone, so even the parents were able to enjoy lunch at the school.

Here are a couple cute videos of the kids singing their songs

Of course we can’t forget the little one of the family! We hung out on the floor with her while the grandson recovered from the festivities

This is only the beginning. Tonight my other daughter arrives with her husband and baby girl. It will be interesting to see how the cousins get along. They sure were interested in each other on FaceTime last night so it might be a lot of fun for everyone.

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The Cost of Food

We moved to Panama mainly because we needed a more economical place to live. We have learned that the benefits and joys of Panama are so much more than money, but it’s still nice to live within our means without worry.

Coming back to the USA always involves sticker shock. This is what we bought yesterday – 6 sweet potatoes, carrots, celery, 3 onions, 2 bunches of asparagus, 2 yogurts, box of EmergenC, $41.75 (an onion, a yogurt, and few stalks of celery are missing from the photo). Without my daughters store membership it would have been $49.17.

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The sweet potatoes were excellent! The other grandparents are came over for dinner so I decided to get six more.

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Yes, that says $10.03, 6 sweet potatoes, $1.99/pound.

This is just a small example of what it costs my daughter and family to live in Northern California. You don’t even want to know what one Costco run cost, but it was equivalent to our monthly food budget. They have a nice 4/2 house in a good neighborhood, nothing big or extraordinary, just a middle class single family home and the appraised value is almost half a million dollars. Both my daughter and her husband have good professional jobs, and even then they stretch to cover daycare and all the other costs of a young family. There is no way either of them could afford to stay home. They are still trying to recover from the few weeks she was home on maternity leave a year ago.

There are cheaper places to live in the US but I don’t think we could afford anywhere with the excellent quality of life we enjoy now. I’m thankful for our life in Panama for a whole lot of reasons!

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Hanging out with the family

it’s always such a pleasure to be with family, and now there are grandchildren too. They have changed so much in even the few months since my last visit.

The weekend was busy with everyone home, and the usual chores and errands. Saturday, we had lunch at the house of the other grandparents and then dinner with them here. Her brother, sister, and brother in law were also part of the festivities so it was a great time with really good people.

Sunday was an Costco run, and then playtime and get ready for the week.

I’ve been here enough that the area is familiar, but I still notice the contrast. Everything here is so clean and manicured, and there is so much stuff for sale, all beautifully displayed. The weekend also had beautiful weather with warm sunny days and beautiful blue skies which made getting out a pleasure.

I almost forgot, we also went for a walk in the park. The baby was getting fussy so we figured an outing might be fun for her.

Monday we borrowed my daughter’s car and thanked it for the navigation system while we did a big list of errands. The rain was moving in before we were done, and this morning is cold, wet, and gloomy. It’s a good day to stay in and make chicken soup!

So, this is the story of our US trip so far. There is more to come, especially this weekend when my other daughter and family arrive. Meanwhile we will be hanging out in the cozy house and making ourselves useful until they all return from work and school. Hasta luego 🙂

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Flying to the USA

My family lives on the west coast of the US so it’s much easier for us to go to them, especially now that they have little kids. It’s a long trip. Thursday we took the bus from David to Panama City and stayed in a hostel near the airport. Friday was the flights from Panama City to San Francisco where my daughter picked us up, and then we drove to Santa Rosa.

It was a beautiful morning. As we flew north over the Caribbean the scenery and clouds were really beautiful.

Our flight path took us over Cuba. Here are a few pictures I snapped as we passed over.

Later we made our way up the east coast of Florida

The east coast of Florida

The east coast of Florida

Finally we landed in Atlanta! We had a layover of more than three hours which I thought was good because we had to clear customs. It went very fast though. There was no waiting at the machines where you scan your passport and answer a few questions. There was a short line to turn in the printout and get passports stamped, and no wait to pick up luggage. We quickly made it through the next checkpoint, dropped off our luggage again, and cleared the security check. Then it was a tram ride and we were in the correct concourse for our next flight.

We taxi towards the Atlanta airport

We taxi towards the Atlanta airport

Delta’s idea if breakfast was a bit lacking- a cold meat and cheese sandwich and a snickers bar, so we were ready for some lunch. We had a great burger and chicken sandwich at Boardwalk Burgers, and enjoyed the jazz pianist at the nearby pizza restaurant.

The next flight to San Francisco was totally full and I was on the aisle, so I didn’t take any photos. I sat next to Megan, photo editor for Frommers travel books, really fun lady, and watched two movies so the flight went fast. We landed in a beautiful sunset and it was lovely coming into SFO.

SFO, waiting for my daughter to pick us up

SFO, waiting for my daughter to pick us up

It’s a bit of a drive to Santa Rosa but it was a beautiful evening. Amy was doing the driving so I could just enjoy.

City traffic

City traffic

Last but hardly least, we cross the Golden Gate Bridge.

The Golden Gate Bridge in the night

The Golden Gate Bridge in the night

 

 

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On the Bus

Traveling from David to the west coast of the USA is a lengthy business. Thankfully we are retired and nothing has to be done in a hurry.

The flight to the US is an all day thing. There are flights from David to Panama City, but the connections don’t work out unless we are booked on an overnight flight. Being old without the stamina of youth, I would prefer to spend the night in a bed.

So, if we are spending the night in Panama City anyway, the bus is a much less expensive way to get there. It’s a long ride though, giving me lots of time to scribble things to post on the blog 😀

a pretty cloud along th way

a pretty cloud along the way

The highway continues to be under construction. There are four lanes but only two are open. Occasionally there are stops to manage traffic where only one lane is open. The paving seems to be pretty much done but they are making curbs, finishing bridges, painting lane markers, etc. I thought maybe by now parts of it would be using all the lanes, but it’s a ton of work with a lot of details and takes time to complete.

I am always surprised by the kids on buses. There were quite a few on this bus and except for a three month old baby who cried for three very short periods in 7 1/2 hours, they were quiet. There are no toys, no snacks, no movies on tablets, just a parents lap. They look out the window, smile at the neighbors, and just generally chill out. Why are all of these kids so calm?

We cross the Panama Canal

We cross the Panama Canal

Our flight leaves at 8am so our plan is to stay at the Express Inn hostal near the airport. They have a shuttle every hour, where our favorite hotel in the city has one at only 5 and 8 am. Our friend, driver, and man useful for a multitude of things Luis Arce will meet us at the bus and take us to the hotel. It’s a $30-35 taxi ride so we may as well pay him rather than a stranger. I did this last time and it was nice to see a friendly face waiting for me.

We arrive at Albrook bus station

We arrive at Albrook bus station

Coming back, Joel is returning before me but it will be the same situation for both of us. We arrive in Panama City around 9:30 pm. Our favorite hotel in the city, the Costa Inn, has a shuttle service that will pick you up from the airport, saving the expensive taxi ride. They serve breakfast and if you don’t mind hanging around for a while, they have an 11am van that takes shoppers to the Albrook mall which is next to the bus terminal. The rooms cost us around $41 with taxes, a very good deal all things considered.

The bus, an older model, but it got us there just fine.

The bus, an older model, but it got us there just fine.

Yes it’s a couple long days but bring stuff to do and enjoy the ride, and it’s all good.

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What do you do a Rainy Day?

October and November are the rainiest months of the rainy season in Panama. Usually the mornings are sunny and beautiful. In the afternoon the clouds gather and by late afternoon it is likely to rain, sometimes with a huge downpour. That will soon settle down to a calmer rain though, which will stop sometime in the evening. People worry about the rainy season thinking it is constant rain but this is not the case at all.

But, the weather doesn’t always follow “the rules”. Yesterday morning was overcast and thunder could be heard in the distance. I took advantage of the cool, cloudy day to work in the yard and had a great day. It didn’t actually rain until very late in the afternoon. Today looked the same, cool and overcast so I put on my gardening clothes. I hardly got them on though and it started to rain, and it has been raining steadily ever since.

Rain isn’t cold here, just wet, and the temperature isn’t cold either. (It’s 75 at noon which for us is quite cool.) The gardener is hard at work in the neighbor’s yard (though I see he has a yellow plastic grocery bag over his head 😀 ) and I’m sure other outdoor work is going on as well all over town.

The neighbor's gardener wearing a grocery bag hat.

The neighbor’s gardener wearing a grocery bag hat.

But, when it rains and you don’t have to go anywhere, what do you do? It’s a perfect time for relaxing in your hammock with a good book. For me, it’s a good time to catch up on correspondence, surf the net, sort photos, write on the blog, and do computer related things. I’m also getting organized for my upcoming trip to the US, and I can finish my latest painting that needs some final touches.

When I was sorting photos I found these of a parade downtown.

I prefer the rainy season over the dry season. The rains stop in December which is convenient for Christmas. People can shop, visit, and celebrate without worry of getting soaked in the process. Schools are on summer vacation too, and don’t resume classes until early February. People tend to enjoy outdoor activities like swimming in the river and hiking in the countryside, and small temporary swimming pools pop up in people’s yards.

A squirrel checks out our bananas and decides they aren't ready yet.

A squirrel checks out our bananas and decides they aren’t ready yet.

But, after weeks of no rain all the vegetation turns brown and crispy, and the days get hotter and hotter. Often water is in short supply and there are rolling water outages and restrictions on power usage (much of the power is hydroelectric) On some days the trade winds blow, and people in the mountains complain that on especially windy days they can barely get out of their houses. With the dry vegetation comes the brush fires. Houses are made of block with tin roofs so they don’t burn, but your plants and trees won’t fare so well. Last year a fire came up from below and went a little into our yard. Our citrus trees lost all their leaves from the heat and didn’t flower this year, so we don’t have fruit. They have recovered well though and should be back to fruiting next year.

By April we have been through a month or two of the hottest days of the year and we are anxiously waiting for the rains to come back. It’s a joy when the clouds come, the rains start, and the vegetation starts to turn green again.

The woods behind my house on a rainy day

The woods behind my house on a rainy day

I will close with a picture of this fantastic spider. Someone on the Panama Expat Facebook group posted a picture of one of these asking for help identifying it. It is an Orchid Mimicking Spider and one of the coolest spiders I’ve seen. I found this photo by google that lead me to a Pinterest link so I’m not sure where it originally came from.

Orchid Mimicking Spider

Orchid Mimicking Spider

Just another day chillin in Panama…

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The Mentally Ill Homeless Need Care – has our society lost it’s soul ?

This article about homelessness in Australia was written by one of my blog followers. The USA is not the only country that struggles with these issues. Click the link below to read the whole article, and while you are there check out some of the other articles. I’m glad to know someone who is trying to improve conditions for brothers and sisters in need.

It’s not because we can’t afford to care for the sick, it’s because we don’t want to. We tend to see the sick as weak or unworthy, we are told that health spending is out of…

Source: The Mentally Ill Homeless Need Care – has our society lost it’s soul ?

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Four Years in Panama

October 10th, four years ago, I boarded a plane for Panama to start a new life. I was excited and looking forward to the future but I had no idea what a good life this would turn out to be!

It’s interesting that after four years many things are still new. Hardly a day goes by when I don’t see something for the first time, learn about some aspect of life here, learn a new word, see a new bug… it’s always something. But, this has also become my normal life. Daily activities are no longer new. I have friends and relationships here. This is home in every sense and it feels good.

I’m very comfortable here. I feel a strong sense of community and acceptance. I love how people greet and acknowledge you even if they don’t know you. I love how easily people make friends. In the US you are judged by so many things – religion, political affiliation, economic status, race, appearance…. we think we are accepting of everyone but in reality we have a ways to go. Here though, religion and politics are personal choices. No one seems to care if you are light or dark (though the men are fascinated by women with white skin and green eyes). No one cares if you are big or small, or where you are from, or how much money you have. They only care if you are kind, respectful, and friendly and will return your kindness many times over.

Do I plan to stay here? Oh my YES! I would be heartbroken if I had to leave. We came because we can live comfortably on our limited income and it’s great to not worry about money, but the benefits have been so much more than that. On surveys of the happiest countries in the world, Panama is always close to or at the top of the list. Happiness is contagious! If I need a dose of happiness all I have to do is hop on my bike and enjoy the greetings and smiles of everyone I pass.

Everyone has their own experience in Panama and it doesn’t work for everyone. People leave for health reasons, because they miss family, but also because they just haven’t found the happiness they thought they would have here. There are challenges of course, but I have found them so minor compared to the benefits. I am thankful every day for the life I have here.

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Tiny Eggs

When I brought the laundry in from the clothesline a few days ago, I noticed some tiny green eggs on one of the socks. There was a bright green beetle with orange edges on another sock so this could be the source of the eggs. The next day Joel found similar but pink eggs on a towel. I have a dish with a gecko egg on my shelf, so I added the little eggs so I could watch and see what happens.

Yesterday I saw that the pink eggs had hatched.

 

Today, the green eggs had also hatched.

There is always something interesting around here! I put the baby bugs in a quiet part of the yard on a large leaf the is protected by another leaf. I’m still waiting on the gecko. The gecko egg has changed from a translucent pinkish color to gray so I think it’s getting closer.

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